Fcuking Disgusting

[wtr]

Never thought that I'll witness it happening before my eyes, right out in the open, so very daring, and so very infuriating.

A young bludger-looking bloke ran towards a blue sedan stopped at the lights driven by what looks like to be his wife/gf. The guy rushed in and slammed the door. At first, I thought it's just another one of those "pick me up at the lights" , but what he did next was absolutely disturbing. THAT prick, or maggotfuck, began pounding the lady with all his might, before even put on his seatbelt! It was just so spontaneous, and so violent. The lady driver was forced to hide against the door, trembling, and begging him to stop. But his knuckles were unforgiving, with each swing the lady gets pushed onto the door even harder.

The peak hour traffic started crawling again, but he's still brutally beating her till she can't corner herself into the door and the seat no more. Their wobbling car waddled on, and her desperate plead for him to stop was still crystal clear to the eyes of most pedestrians.

I was shocked none the less, and though the car has left the traffic light that was overshadowed by the tall office building and faded into the setting sun. But I could still imagine the poor lass copping a fistful in the distant. The only soothing lie I could tell myself was that things are now "momentarily better" because now that they are in the harmony of the afternoon sun, but nothing really changed. She most probably had a bleeding lip, numerous numbing bruises on her left arm, tilted her body sideways, sniffing and weeping quietly.

However, by the time I was done processing these frames in my mind, I realised I was already too late to remember her license plate. Something could've been done by the coppers if I handed her plate number to them, something that the coppers were supposed to do - to protect and serve. But I could only blame myself for not doing enough to help the agony she's in. It was the day before Valentine's day, and this is how he treats her, is this how much love really hurts?! Fuck that!! Total strangers, but the seeing of such chilling brutality against a female without a doubt left a bitter aftertaste in me.

BASHING WOMEN, IT'S NOT ON!!:mad::mad:

[-DAvo]

damn warren, thats pretty gut wrenching :(

its so sad when people think that the only solution is to smack a few into their partner.. :angry:

lets just hope there is such a thing as karma, and that twit comes back in his next life as a nervous skinny dude in prison bunked with a big fat lonely inmate.

[Fatman]

There's something else that makes me sick.:mad:

What a weak little piece of whale shit. I can't understand what goes on inside these peoples heads. I hope that guy gets banged up for a long time.

[robracer]

:mad: This is the lowest of the low gutter shit bashing women is not on & he should have the full force of the law & our rediculous judicial system thrust in his face .... hopefully one day he will get locked up & be bashed to a pulp as he cowers in the corner of his cell ....an eye for an eye i say.

Many years ago I had witnessed a similar bashing but not as violent but still very shocking as this maggot laid into his female driver at a set of lights. I could not hold back so being on a motorbike it was easy to slip beside them & glance through the window at this wanker and only after a few seconds glance did he stop, the lights changed & they took off.

The worst thing here was the woman seemed to not fend off the attack almost like it was a regular occurance to be beaten. This sorta thing shocks me to the core & I am left dumbfounded as to the life this person must live knowing they are women bashers!

[Dozer]

What a weak, gutless piece of shit. I know if I saw that happen, I would be onto them straight away. He'd get ripped out of the car and I'd kick his head in. Poor woman, I reckon instances like these would instigate the woman to boil over and split his head open.....BANG! Murder charge for her because she had enough of his crap. Justice eh........

[scblack]

It is pissweak beyond imagining, and deserves to have the living shit bashed out of him.

But why did she not just get out of the car? How come she stuck around?

[BrumbyJack]

I can just imagine... she was probably late picking him up or something like that...

That made me cry when I read that... It is shocking to people to see stuff like that, so make sure you talk it out... I can understand you being too shocked to help. Your brain wouldn't believe what your eyes were seeing... and I'm sure you weren't alone in that state.

BTW, SCBlack, I can understand why she didn't get out of the car... it's probably her car and the only thing she has left in the world. She was probably also scared of what would happen if she did bolt.

I had a guy beat me up while I was driving once.... shocked me totally... I was not expecting it at all, I managed not to crash and somehow had the presence of mind to pull over and physically remove him from the car...(from the inside, i.e. push him out the door) luckily for me I'm quite big and strong for a girl. I can assure you I was in shock afterwards though and spent a few hours driving around in circles..

[scblack]

BTW, SCBlack, I can understand why she didn't get out of the car... it's probably her car and the only thing she has left in the world.

But she could take the keys with her.

She was probably also scared of what would happen if she did bolt.

Could well be true I guess. But an abusive relationship HAS to be walked away from. A relationship is based on respect, clearly there is none here. But I have no idea what had happened, what their relationship is or anything.

But then I'm a bloke, and cannot imagine the feelings from the female perspective.:confused:




wtr, just noticed your signature - cool.:)

[lotec]

that sickens me to read that, if it had been me my impulse reaction would be to run up and tear the guy out of the car and hit him as hard as i possibly could, you said he didnt have his seatbelt on? all the better, guys hitting girls is just the lowest of low, if i ever witness it i feel sorry for whats gonna happen to the guy, you just dont do that kind of stuff, end of discussion. and if you do, you deserve whats coming to you :mad:

[NCR600]

That sucks. I hate bullies. It's not that the dude bashes women, he probably bashes anyone he thinks won't bash back.

It's probably best to stay out of it though. A very good mate of mine has an assault conviction for punching a guy he saw beating up a woman.

He was walking home from work, saw this couple arguing, with the guy pushing the girl around, and eventually he decided to do something about it when he started to punch her.

So he walked over the road and king hit the guy. My mate is a big guy and the basher decided to lay down and have a sleep.

The woman turned on him, physically attacking him. Someone called the cops, who were on the scene in minutes. The woman told the cops that it was an unprovoked attack! No witnesses were found, and my mate got done for assault.

[Dumbellina]

That is shithouse.

A girl who works for me was having trouble with attendance and concentration at work. I took her for coffee and asked what was up. She told me she had just moved in with her boyfriend and his parents. I also work with her boyfriend's father. We all know him as a kind gentle fella who is fun to have a drink or two with. Turns out his a shithead alcoholic who beats his wife and children relentlessly and she actually feared for her life. She's left work now but the boyfriend's father is still at work (in another section thankfully). Sorry to change the topic but it just made me think of her.

[BrumbyJack]

Dumbellina, there is a term for guys (and girls) like that....

It's called, "Instant Arsehole, just add alcohol" :mad:

Unfortunately there are far too many of them in this world :(

[Scully]

I was witness to a similar instance once.

I was driving along a road at about 1am one morning when I noticed a car parked up ahead and a woman walking away from it. As I got closer I saw a man get out of the car and follow the woman. I slowed down and looked in my review mirror as the guy ran after her and then crash tackled her to the ground and then began to lay into her with his fists. I turned around and drove back to where they were and called to police. I got out of the car and I tried to make the guy stop but he was in a rage and was punching her so hard I couldn't believe she hadn't been knocked out. I got closer and the guy then got up and turned his attention to me. I told the woman to run to a house and she did. The guy then came after me and so I backed off but he launched himself at me. He was very drunk and so I only copped a few badly timed hits to the head but I managed to land some of my own and thankfully the police arrived soon after.

I was informed that guy had a restraining order placed on him.

The most sickening thing was that there was a young child left in the back of the car. If I hadn't of passed when I did the child would very possibly be raised witnessing these sort of bashings as a regular thing.

It's so sad to see men that can do this women.

[24seven]

I was witness to a similar instance once.

I was driving along a road at about 1am one morning when I noticed a car parked up ahead and a woman walking away from it. As I got closer I saw a man get out of the car and follow the woman. I slowed down and looked in my review mirror as the guy ran after her and then crash tackled her to the ground and then began to lay into her with his fists. I turned around and drove back to where they were and called to police. I got out of the car and I tried to make the guy stop but he was in a rage and was punching her so hard I couldn't believe she hadn't been knocked out. I got closer and the guy then got up and turned his attention to me. I told the woman to run to a house and she did. The guy then came after me and so I backed off but he launched himself at me. He was very drunk and so I only copped a few badly timed hits to the head but I managed to land some of my own and thankfully the police arrived soon after.

I was informed that guy had a restraining order placed on him.

The most sickening thing was that there was a young child left in the back of the car. If I hadn't of passed when I did the child would very possibly be raised witnessing these sort of bashings as a regular thing.

It's so sad to see men that can do this women.

Did you get a medal? It certainly sounds like you deserve one! Top work.

Me and some mates were driving a few hrs south of Adelaide to go camping and we passed a truck stop with a car pulled in. There was a male and female in the car and the female was copping a beating. When the male (the driver) saw us brake and turn around he sped off. He was in a Commodore and we were in an old beaten Landcruiser! We didn't even have time to get his plates. Shame really because there were 4 of us!

[slm33d]

thats the owest thing any one can ever do BASH A WOMAN:mad: . i think my neighbour bashes his wife cause there never outside and she always looks like she has been hit by somethin . cant prove it but when i do POLICE are gunna kick his miserable arse. they need to have a special punishment for guys like that. i think a bashing by a cop with a night stick once a day for 3 years.:eek:

[MasterOfReality]

Used to happen all the time in a town where I used to work. We were housed in company accomodation, and one of the workers had a native missus.

She used to be at the pub all day, talking on his mobile all day, just doing stuff that was costing him big money. Like the time he came home from work and found his monthly mobile bill for $900. Didn't the shit hit the fan that day.

You could hear them yelling, throwing each other around their flat, beating the crap out of eachother etc.

She may have done a lot of stupid crap, but you don't beat up on women full stop.

And we found it best to keep out of it, let them sort it out themselves.

[scblack]

A guy I knew, rugby prop roughly 120kg, had a neighbour who always bashed his missus round the house, the whole neighbourhood could hear it.

Anyhow one morning he met him in the driveway, the neighbour had a go at him, so my mate the prop beat the living shit out of him. Best feeling he ever had. And it was self defence, if ever the police got involved.

[lotec]

thats the way^

[DEMONATION]

wow what a big lad beating up a chick. really must be a tough guy... fuking pisses me off, where were u while this was happening? and why didnt any of the pedestrains have a go?

[tonka_202]

what a guttless, fcuk.

seriously you love a women so much that you marry her then soon on you bash her, i could never do that!!

[Vicious_Fishes]

But why did she not just get out of the car? How come she stuck around?


because for some poor people, this is normal behaviour to them.

[tonka_202]

because for some poor people, this is normal behaviour to them.


yeah i know this girl who used to get hit by the husband whenever she did a minor thing wrong or even when he had a bad day, she just took it never said anything, he stopped now cause they had children but its quite sad i think!!, how people just take it because their just to scared to say anything!

[michael_mel]

f*ck ! ! ! ! ! what the hells wrong with people. If your gonna bash somone make it yourself not your girlfriend or wife. It makes me sick. Im not very old (15) but im well built, if i ever saw some piss weak asshole beating a woman i'd show him a thing or two about respect ! ! !

[Wattsy]

Similar story i had happen last week. A good friend of mine's best friend came down to where we were at a pub, she was crying and after they had found out what happened, they went looking for this guy (this chics brother, and 5 other guys, not big but threating) went skit's at this dude. Wasn't till another bigger friend almost bottled the guy that security showed up.

Seriously fucked up, hitting a girl give's you what? esspecially if she isn't trying to kill you. Some people.

I'd say wait round at the same spot tomorrow, esspecially if it did look like it was a regular pick up. See if you see the guy again and get plate's. Just my idea.

[kerbdrop]

Reading this stuff i have just been stunned and shocked.. in complete disbeleief..
to think there are people out there that could be capable of this.. and to htink there are the silent/helpless victims of this is pretty distressing.

and even if you were to be able to intervene in time and bash living daylights out of the wife beater, it would really serve only to bottle the wife beater up more.. someone like that doesn't open up to his problems and become a better person from a bashing.

i don't know what id' do in a situ like that.. don't know if i'd have the rationality and calmness to call the cops and get the rego number

[lotec]

^yea but if you kill him or seriously cripple him he cant do it again can he? :)

[skivi]

really makes you think ey?

...is this it? we are the most advanced and inteligent race that we know of yet we still decide to bash the shit out of ech other, kill, steal, hate, supress, enslave, terrorise the list goes on. we can choose the way we live so why is life like this, why cant we just stop, think and make right.

for fucks sake planet earth wake up! please!
i'll leave you all with some lyrics...
"tell me mister business man can you eat youre money? Cos thats all that's gonna be left!"
"its time to fight the real war for justice, racial equality, poverty and hunger"

[tonka_202]

really makes you think ey?

...is this it? we are the most advanced and inteligent race that we know of yet we still decide to bash the shit out of ech other, kill, steal, hate, supress, enslave, terrorise the list goes on. we can choose the way we live so why is life like this, why cant we just stop, think and make right.

for fucks sake planet earth wake up! please!
i'll leave you all with some lyrics...
"tell me mister business man can you eat youre money? Cos thats all that's gonna be left!"
"its time to fight the real war for justice, racial equality, poverty and hunger"


wow. did you right all that yourself?


"No love here, Just money"

[W2ttsy]

id have to say im on the intervene and bash em bandwagon. even though it could land an assualt charge, the police and any employers would probably go light on you if you were intervening in a serious office.

of course, there is a difference between a glock 17 and a fist tho :rolleyes:

W2ttsy

[Mo]

i hope you called the cops and made a little comment.

[RedPill]

After a local DH race me and my mate where waiting for our lift home, and across the road this car pulled over and the chick got out and the guy started yelling at her to get back in and so fourth the spat at her she spat back then he hit her, we started pegging rocks at him trying 2 get his attention but didnt work, its the lowest act hitting/bashing a girl.

[exvitermini]

i dont want a too cause a too big a stir up
,but if you stand back and do nothing that makes you nearly as bad as the dude hiting his girl.. im not saying go get the shoty or go in punching,but just get in there and get the guy away from who evers being hit...

[W2ttsy]

i dont want a too cause a too big a stir up
,but if you stand back and do nothing that makes you nearly as bad as the dude hiting his girl.. im not saying go get the shoty or go in punching,but just get in there and get the guy away from who evers being hit...

you have to be careful tho. if you decide to get involved in any fight, then you need to be prepared to get down and dirty. pulling an assailant away from one target jst makes them hunt for a new one, and that new target is you.

also, if you piss off a wife basher, chances are, unless they are thrown in the lock up for the night, hes just going to go home and fuck up the wife even more cos hes pissed at getting beaten up himself.

sort of the same principle as the anti rape condom (http://msnbc.msn.com/id/9145415/). after a rapist gets his cock caught in a barbed diaphram, the last thing hes going to do is just leave her alone. hes going to beat the shit out of her/murder her to revenge his cock getting munted up.

the point is, bashing a basher could just make it worse. however, if you can restrain him until the police come, then thats a different story.

W2ttsy

[Krusty]

thats just dodgy, its not on. i think that dude should be out down. women are here to create life not to be beaten
what goes around comes around, he will get whats coming to him/

[exvitermini]

as i said dont always go in being the hero ready to fight.. be smart*.. get his attention,draw him away some how(may need force) but be ready to fight or run if things go bad..


be smart*: if the dudes a real tank and you have no chance, get help!!.. call the cops.. dont just let it go.. and lie to yourself that you could do nothing..

[Wattsy]

"No love here, Just money"

Let me guess, 2pac? or 50 cent?

[sasser]

reading this has absloutely made my stomach churn, my head fill with rage, and my fists clench.
i dont know what i would do if i ever witnessed such a thing, i just dont know if i could control myself and do the right thing before my head just reacts automatcaly, i go on autopilot and go nuts.
i still feel sick jus tthinking about it.
the fact thaty is happens so frequestly just angwers me so much, and there is so little i can do to help.

but definatly call the cops before you do anyhting if this situation occurs to you, call 000, get over there, stop him hitting her, even if he lays into you- be prepared for that.
i dont know if i could even take my own advice and call the cops first befoere i did anything.
im so angry i can hardly talk. it sickens me to the bone that thins happens.
i am a strong believer in karma, and these people WILL get whats coming to them. even if i have to deliver it.

[exvitermini]

I got to see the after effects of this again tonight.:(

its been an hour since it was sorted out and im still so friggen mad:mad: :mad: :mad:

[wtr]

Friend, we can't always blame ourselves for failing to act when others were in need. It's just how things are, can't save everybody.:o

Freakin conscience...:mad:

[marklar]

Domestic violence is a difficult problem to deal with and there is rarely a simple solution. It is very true that intervening, attacking or shaming the perpetrators will often only result in a worse beating for the victim later, which in part explains why victims sometimes turn on those that intervene for "making it worse". Police intervention may solve the problem, but often only if the victim is willing to press charges, which they are all too frequently unwilling to do. Victims in abusive relationships all too often have convinced themselves that they somehow "deserve" the abuse and/or that they can somehow change the abuser. The longer the abuse goes on, the more invested they become in this fallacy. Intervention may trigger an acceptance by the victim that they can and should abandon the relationship, but this is hardly a certainty.

Of course, this is only true of relationships that have already been going AND abusive for some time, and as a bystander it is not always easy to tell if this is the case. It is, however, worth pointing out that the attitude expressed in many of the posts in this thread that "these people WILL get whats coming to them. even if i have to deliver it." or wishing maiming, death or rape in jail on such people with a stated or implied intent to personally ensure it happens is pretty much the exact same "violence solves problems" attutude to which the perpetrators of domestic violence subscribe. The urge to lash out violently when angered is in a vast majority of the population's nature and whether you actually do so, and whether against those you love is the only real difference between those we so reflexively consider "them" and "us".

[exvitermini]

Domestic violence is a difficult problem to deal with and there is rarely a simple solution. It is very true that intervening, attacking or shaming the perpetrators will often only result in a worse beating for the victim later, which in part explains why victims sometimes turn on those that intervene for "making it worse". Police intervention may solve the problem, but often only if the victim is willing to press charges, which they are all too frequently unwilling to do. Victims in abusive relationships all too often have convinced themselves that they somehow "deserve" the abuse and/or that they can somehow change the abuser. The longer the abuse goes on, the more invested they become in this fallacy. Intervention may trigger an acceptance by the victim that they can and should abandon the relationship, but this is hardly a certainty.

Of course, this is only true of relationships that have already been going AND abusive for some time, and as a bystander it is not always easy to tell if this is the case. It is, however, worth pointing out that the attitude expressed in many of the posts in this thread that "these people WILL get whats coming to them. even if i have to deliver it." or wishing maiming, death or rape in jail on such people with a stated or implied intent to personally ensure it happens is pretty much the exact same "violence solves problems" attutude to which the perpetrators of domestic violence subscribe. The urge to lash out violently when angered is in a vast majority of the population's nature and whether you actually do so, and whether against those you love is the only real difference between those we so reflexively consider "them" and "us".

i learnt last night that the police now have the powers to step in if there are sign of a Domestic(what there was alot) even if they are not welcomed by the victim

so we got her and two of the kids out of the house,but as there were weapons involved and it being 12:30 in the morning the police were called to settle things and get the other 2 kids out of danger.

the police ended up trasporting the guy to the police depo..and that was the last i herd..

[turkey 6000]

i fu*ken hate wife beaters, this crim who lived across the road from me threw his girfriend off the front balcony into the bushes below then dropped a pipewrench on her then every man in our street beat the shit out of him.
i would have loved to get in there but im only 14:mad:

[Dumbellina]

Seems cyclists aren't immune from being wife harrassers...

(insert inappropriate joke about riding and gaol sodomy here...)

Olympic cyclist jailed over wife stalking
From: AAP

February 28, 2006

OLYMPIC cyclist Gary Neiwand has been jailed for four months for breaching an order requiring him to keep away from his ex-wife.

In September last year, Neiwand, 39, was given a suspended four-month jail term, but just weeks later breached a court order by driving past his wife's house.

In the Melbourne Magistrates' Court today, Magistrate Felicity Broughton ordered the dual Olympic silver medallist to serve out the four-month sentence.

Neiwand's lawyer said he would appeal against the decision and apply for bail.
Neiwand pleaded guilty to two counts of breaching an intervention order and one count of breaching a suspended sentence.

The order required him to keep at least 200m from his wife and her home at Elwood in Melbourne.

His lawyer, Martin Grinberg, said Neiwand was driving between cafes seeking to catch up with cycling friends when he inadvertently passed the house.
A victim impact statement from Neiwand's ex-wife, Catherine Neiwand, appealed to the court not to jail the cyclist, who won silver medals at the 1992 and 2000 Olympic Games.

Police prosecutor Senior Constable Craig Zeheer said Neiwand had had his last chance and was thumbing his nose at the orders laid down by the court last September.

[Binaural]

Seems cyclists aren't immune from being wife harrassers...

(insert inappropriate joke about riding and gaol sodomy here...)

Olympic cyclist jailed over wife stalking
From: AAP

February 28, 2006

OLYMPIC cyclist Gary Neiwand has been jailed for four months for breaching an order requiring him to keep away from his ex-wife.

In September last year, Neiwand, 39, was given a suspended four-month jail term, but just weeks later breached a court order by driving past his wife's house.

In the Melbourne Magistrates' Court today, Magistrate Felicity Broughton ordered the dual Olympic silver medallist to serve out the four-month sentence.

Neiwand's lawyer said he would appeal against the decision and apply for bail.
Neiwand pleaded guilty to two counts of breaching an intervention order and one count of breaching a suspended sentence.

The order required him to keep at least 200m from his wife and her home at Elwood in Melbourne.

His lawyer, Martin Grinberg, said Neiwand was driving between cafes seeking to catch up with cycling friends when he inadvertently passed the house.
A victim impact statement from Neiwand's ex-wife, Catherine Neiwand, appealed to the court not to jail the cyclist, who won silver medals at the 1992 and 2000 Olympic Games.

Police prosecutor Senior Constable Craig Zeheer said Neiwand had had his last chance and was thumbing his nose at the orders laid down by the court last September.

Seems a bit of a sad situation - his wife doesn't even want him jailed, even though she placed an AVO on him. Not sure if any violence is involved either.

[Dumbellina]

Seems a bit of a sad situation - his wife doesn't even want him jailed, even though she placed an AVO on him. Not sure if any violence is involved either.

That's why I used the term "harrassers" not "bashers". What else could she expect if she reports him for breach AVO, especially one taking Neiwand at his word, seemed trivial and accidental. Although in these matters things can never be taken on their face value.

[NeBoS]

The dude must have some kinda mental issues or something along those lines. Behaviour such as this, and so random, really does call for mental illness.

Domestic violence is just so difficult to control/govern. Its really up the the weaker party's perception or view of the other person as to weather or not they can become violent. Im assuming that that dude has behaved like this before, in which case its a shame that his missus may actually be hiding the abuse, as she's scared to inform the appropriate authorities - I have seen this time and time again - its really just a very harmful cycle occuring.

Not very nice.

[haroboy182]

f*ck ! ! ! ! ! what the hells wrong with people. If your gonna bash somone make it yourself not your girlfriend or wife. It makes me sick. Im not very old (15) but im well built, if i ever saw some piss weak asshole beating a woman i'd show him a thing or two about respect ! ! ! Yeah i agree strongly with that, but would violence be the thing to do?.....Yeah probably would, i cant thing of anything else you would do if you saw a sik prick doing that to a women